I’ve been thinking about this lately.
I think hobbies matter more the older we get.
Maybe that sounds backwards.
When we’re kids, hobbies are practically our entire world. We ride bikes. Build things. Collect stuff. Play games. Race RC cars around the driveway until somebody tells us it’s time to come inside.
Then we grow up.
And somewhere along the way, life gets serious.
There’s work.
Bills.
Relationships.
Responsibilities.
Things that need fixed around the house.
Things we’ve been meaning to do for three months.
And an endless list of things that are apparently more important than spending an afternoon messing around with an RC car.
But I’m starting to wonder if that’s exactly why hobbies become more important.
Not Everything Has to Accomplish Something
As adults, it feels like almost everything we do needs to have a purpose.
If we’re exercising, we’re trying to get healthier.
If we’re learning something, we’re trying to advance our career.
If we start a project, eventually somebody asks whether we could make money doing it.
We optimize everything.
And honestly, sometimes it’s exhausting.
That’s one of the things I appreciate about RC.
I can walk into the garage, pull a car off the shelf and spend way too much time working on something that probably didn’t need nearly that much attention.
There doesn’t have to be a bigger reason.
Maybe I want to get an old engine running again.
Maybe I want to clean up a car that has been sitting forever.
Maybe I want to finally start one of those projects I bought years ago and confidently told myself, I’ll get to that one later.
Or maybe I just want to stand there and look at my collection while thinking about what I want to mess with next.
None of it needs to be productive.
Sometimes enjoying it is enough.
Hobbies Give Us Something to Look Forward To
I think that matters too.
When you’re younger, there always seems to be something coming.
Graduation.
Your first car.
Your first real job.
Moving out.
Whatever the next stage of life happens to be.
As you get older, life can become much more routine.
You wake up.
Go to work.
Take care of whatever needs taking care of.
Go to bed.
Get up and do it again.
A hobby puts little things on the calendar that have absolutely nothing to do with responsibility.
A new project.
A part arriving in the mail.
Taking a car out for the first time after rebuilding it.
Finally getting an engine to run the way you wanted.
A weekend where you know you’re going to have a few hours to disappear into the garage.
They might seem like small things.
But having small things to look forward to can make a pretty big difference.
You Get to Be Curious Again
This might be my favorite part.
Hobbies give adults permission to still be beginners.
You don’t have to know everything.
You can try something, completely screw it up, figure out what went wrong and try again.
RC has plenty of opportunities for that.
Anyone who has spent enough time trying to tune a nitro engine knows exactly what I mean.
One minute you think you’ve finally figured it out.
Five minutes later, the car has decided to humble you.
But there’s something satisfying about that.
You’re learning because you want to learn.
Not because your boss told you to.
Not because there’s going to be a test.
Not because you need another certification.
You’re just curious.
I don’t think we should lose that.
And Sometimes the Garage Is Just the Garage
I also think we underestimate how valuable it is to have a place where the rest of life can stay outside for a little while.
That’s what the garage can be for me.
I can put something on in the background, grab a car I haven’t touched in months and start tinkering.
And for a while, the world gets smaller.
I’m not thinking about everything I need to do.
I’m thinking about the car sitting in front of me.
What needs cleaned?
What’s broken?
Where did I put that part I swear I bought?
And why do I have seven containers full of screws but somehow never the screw I actually need?
That time matters.
Maybe more than I realized when I was younger.
I Don’t Think We Outgrow Hobbies
I think sometimes we just stop giving ourselves permission to have them.
We tell ourselves we’re too busy.
Or that there are more important things we should be doing.
Maybe we look at the money sitting on those shelves in the garage and wonder if any sane person actually needs this many RC cars.
The answer to that last question is obviously something we don’t need to discuss.
But I don’t think enjoying something simply because it makes you happy is childish.
I think it’s probably something more adults need.
You need something that makes you curious.
Something that gets you excited.
Something you can spend Saturday morning messing with and suddenly realize it’s Saturday afternoon.
Something with no deadline, no performance review and nobody keeping score.
For me, one of those things has always been RC cars.
And the older I get, the more I appreciate having them around.
Not because I need another RC car.
Let’s not get carried away here.
But because maybe we all need something in our lives that we do for no other reason than…
Man, I still really enjoy this.
And I think that’s reason enough.
What About You?
Do you think hobbies have become more important to you as you’ve gotten older?
And whether it’s RC cars or something completely different, what’s the hobby you hope you never outgrow?
I’d genuinely like to hear what yours is.

